Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Picked The Wrong One...

This post is very un-wedding and non-loving of me, but you see, I have a very, very bad habit of picking the wrong guys... lets call them toads. There is one thing my past 3 boyfriends have had in common, and that is that they have all been fresh out of marriages, and newly single. I don't know if i have an inbuilt magnet for these toads or if perhaps my purpose on earth is as an Angel and to heal the broken hearts of these fools (sadly in the end I am left with a crushed heart whilst they joyously move on, and then the next girl they date, they marry, have babies with and live happily ever after). hhhhmmmmm.

In any case, I can be a bit of a 'Pollyanna' and look for the rainbow in every situation, so, though a separation and divorce is soul destroying, it's also a time to celebrate (no point wollowing about someone who doesn't reciprocate wonderful love). Holding a divorce party is gaining popularity, and what a great way to 'untie the knot'. Why not mark the day you let go of the past, move forward and hopefully fall madly, madly, madddlllyyy in love with someone who will appreciate, love and adore you forever ! "Till death do you part"... well i'm sorry darling, but you did stay true to your vows because your marriage is dead, and it's time you 'do part' !!! So, get a grip and find someone new and fabulous to spend the rest of your life happily with. You DO deserve true love !! What are you waiting for?

From Sydney Morning Herald: Most Australians agree with the proposition that marriage is for life. But most also think it is perfectly all right for unhappy couples to divorce, even if they have children. Ruth Weston, from The Australian Institute of Family Study, states that "People believe you have to go into marriage thinking it is for life," she states. "They believe marriage should be a serious commitment. But they acknowledge the ideal may not pan out, hopes will be dashed, and as the course of the marriage unfolds, the ideal may need to be set aside."

Row 2: CafePress
Row 5: Both images Telegraph
Row 7: Both images Smack News
Final image: Kingdom of Style (keep calm & carry on)

4 Love Notes:

Anonymous said...

Your words today have helped me. Thanks for the strength. thank you thank you thank you. i love this post.

Margaret said...

Excellent !!!!!!!! So true. Out with the old - in with the new. Life is too short to not be loved or to love

Margaret said...

Excellent !!!!!!!! So true. Out with the old - in with the new. Life is too short to not be loved or to love

George said...

Very fun and entertaining. Well done. - George